MY OWN EULOGY

Arson P. Balana was a true Filipino in Philippines. I was born in the city in Jan. 10, 1993

 

and I never truly left. I lived at times in other places; I always came home to the Quezon

 

City. I said the city was truly in my blood. I ‘am Catholic and my father’s name Angelo M.

 

Balana and my mother’s name Maylyn P. Balana. I was only one son and second in three siblings.

 

I went to school at STI College and studied Business Management Major in Operational

 

Management I love acting. I love getting to the bottom of the wheeling and dealing that

 

went on behind the scenes. Most of all, I love singing. I was an idealist that believed that

 

one man could help change to improve. I loved my family more. I was also loyal, almost to a

 

fault. I could find humor in absolutely every situation. My dream is to travel the world. My

 

hobby is internet surfing and food trip. My delicious cooking is adobong kangkong that full of

 

chili like bicol express because I love any food or snack that have spicy flavor. During my two

 

decade I enjoy to bond with my family and friends in vacation, eating exotic food, doing

 

activities and so on. I love my friends especially my family because they make me laugh

 

and I know that they love me too. My relationship to my family is continuous changing

 

because their emotion is changing from good or bad mood. I ‘am happy because I had

 

complete happy family. We love each other and we care each other. They are my first and last

 

teacher of they teach the differences of right and wrong. They teach to be a good son and

 

how to pray. Pray what you want to wish in a right way, pray not only for yourself but for the

 

others and pray to open your heart to the lord Jesus Christ and to all in this world. My family

 

gives education for me and anything that I have because they love their siblings as they love

 

to their self. They give me a privilege to choose what course in college I take. I take BSBM or

 

Bachelor of Science in Business Management because it teaches you how to manage your own

 

business. Because business it helps you to develop your skills in managing time, money, work,

 

and so on. It helps you also to understand how to put up a new business and to build goodwill in

 

dealing with other people to succeed in life. I ‘am is friendly, patient, attentive, humble, and

 

careful, have integrity and have a sense of humor. Before I die I want to do something

 

good to help my family, friends, and fellow to solve their problems and I pray them always. I eat

 

a lot of food; I give any materials that I have to my family and fellow as legacy, payment and/or

 

remembrance because anything in this world I miss you cannot get or carry any materials in this

 

world in heaven but you can get or carry in your mind any experiences in heaven since you alive

 

until your in the next eternal life or the heaven. If I die now my family, friends, neighbor perhaps

 

fellowmen they attend in my funeral they cry they remember what I did before. A lot of people

 

may attend because I ‘am not bad person. Life is short we must confront our mortality from time

 

to time. We should prepare because any time we can die we cannot predict what happen in

 

future. Don’t afraid to die anything in this world can be lost because that is reality we must

 

accept all happen but the trust and love in your heart and mind cannot die. People admired most

 

to me and miss most about me is being friendly, quiet, and have sense of humor. Sometimes I do

 

not following my parent’s to do any job but sometimes if I have a good mood and I ‘am

 

energetic I do any job because I have a little bit of initiative. When I was in grade school my

 

dream is to be come scientist but now I want to become a singer, actor and businessman

 

someday. My biggest problems in my life is when I was in grade school our previous house is

 

gone because at big fire afterwards my parents join Gawad Kalinga then they build our new

 

house after 3 years we move in other place to rent a house because at the trouble and we started a

 

new beginning now. When I was a child I had lots of enemy not only my fellow child is my

 

enemy but their parent’s is my enemy as well but now we are all friends. I have bad experience

 

in school day, when I was in grade school I went to the rugged and bad teacher first day of

 

school just been held accountable to me immediately because I accuse of doing wrong even if I

 

do not have sin. She does not know the situation if who is at fault then I stand by my teacher and

 

not fed any moment until end of class thus not never be forget my unforgettable moment in my

 

life. I have many kind friends who care and help me at my assignment and group activities to

 

know how to do it. After 1 year I had again a new friends but I had again a bad teacher like

 

previously. She forced us polish sell her food even if we do not want it. If we don’t want buy her

 

merchandise our money mandatory that is the one to my unforgettable bad experience in life. A

 

child that lives with affection learns to love, a child that lives with encouragement learns

 

confident, a child that lives with praise learns to appreciate, a child that learns with knowledge

 

learns wisdom, a child that lives with patience learns tolerant and a child that lives with

 

happiness will find love and beauty. I feel I ‘am lucky and happy because my parent’s is here to

 

protect, guide, and support me at all. I thank to God to all love and kind I thanks to my family as

 

well then I pray to God that we guide all of people and keep us from harm. Life is full of

 

happiness and sorrow but don’t forget all of this is a trial that we need to face. “Nothing is

 

permanent but change” If we live in sorrow we might live in happiness in future. I will miss so

 

many things about in this world. There was no such thing as a bad day for me, just

 

challenges that had to be faced and overcome. Most of all I miss how full of life I had. God Bless us!!!